Every month Lovetreats interviews real people ages 18+, from our very own Indian cities, about their sex lives. We have 6 standard questions and many different answers! Unabashed, fun, weird, happy, cute, or super shy – whatever your answers are, we want to know. We want to keep sex and sexuality on the table to discuss. Consider Pillow Talk a regular reminder that sex is all about fun, respect, intimacy, and yeah, a little bit of kink.
Interview With Paromita
"Hi, I'm Paromita. 23/F (I sound like a flat number), Bengali young adult who hates fish, can't sing and is a serial shopper who is always broke. Oh, and I found love recently, in a hopeless place (Rihanna was right)!"
When was the last time you had sex?
What was your first time like?
Well, my first time was PAINF*CKINGFUL. Like, I remember just tapping my boyfriend's shoulder and saying, "We had a good run, lots of couples live without sex. We'll just foreplay forever." So yeah lots of weird thoughts like - What if my vagina is too small for this? Is it because I'm short? Is his penis too big? Why doesn't his penis like me? Really. Okay this idiot loves me, because he still wants to bang my brains out after I've asked him to stop the 56th time to catch a breath/take a water break.
What's the weirdest moment you've had in bed?
Since I recently lost my virginity everything is weird. Lol. The feeling sex gives, cannot be felt by anything else. Like, that is the ONLY thing that makes you feel weirdly good. And it's a weird addictive good feeling. Also morning wood is weird. Isn't it? Okay this was weird: As a joke we'd call the penis Tom. And once we got into this elaborate conversation about Tom like he's some guy we know and we spoke about his likes, dislikes and characteristics. It was weird when we realised we were talking about a penis and not an actual person, but it was hilarious weird.
Have you ever used a sex toy before?
YES! I GOT ONE FROM LOVETREATS! It's the aqua blue vibrator. [Editor's Note & shameless plug: it's the Angelo]. Since my boyfriend doesn't like oral sex as such, he makes sure I get off with the help of some handwork and that BLESSED vibrator!
What's the juiciest sexual fantasy you are willing to admit?
I still haven't had my backseat car sex fantasy fulfilled! So probably that coupled with some out-doorsy foreplay. There's something about doing it in non conventional places that really does it for me. New place, and endless possibilities ;)
Give us your best sex tip or advice!
Teasing is an absolute MUST. The more you linger into the actual foreplay, the better the sex after. Works for me, all the time :)
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