The fundamentals of pleasuring a woman during sex seems to lie not only in the intercourse but also on multiple erogenous zones in a woman’s body. Indian women interviewed across cities overwhelmingly believed that the size of the penis mattered only somewhat, while most emphasized on the need for foreplay and after-play. Many said it matters how well the partner understands the female body.
Well, fear not, because here’s a comprehensive list of eight areas in a woman’s body that will leave her writhing in pleasure when touched right. By the way, don't be afraid to use a little help when stimulating your partner! A little bit of lube, a nice massage oil or even a vibrator can really add to her (and your) pleasure and make foreplay so much more exciting.
1. The ears
The outer rim of the ears and the lobes can be vary in sensitivity person to person, but some time spent lightly biting or licking the area will definitely have results down south.
2. The nape of the neck
Light grazing with teeth or running fingers while spooning your partner can likely lead them to spark up a night of passion.
One of the most obvious locations and according to research, very sensitive to touch, are the breasts. Cupping, squeezing, and other maneuvers that your partner is comfortable with are recommended. The trick is to build up the excitement. So be gentle, the way she responds to your moves will tell you what she likes and doesn't.
4. The nipples and the areolas
The areolas are the darker ring of skin around the nipples. While the nipples are highly sensitive to touch, light grazing with teeth or even just with fingers, the areolas are comparatively less responsive for most women. Pay close attention to her body language to find out what she likes.
5. The back
Depending on each individual, the entire back or the lower back maybe sensitive to touch and can lead to some interesting responses when coupled with other efforts to arouse a woman. Use a massage oil or massage lube and treat her to an erotic massage.
6. The butt
The nether region can be exceptionally sensitive for some women and you can lightly squeeze, cup or even uses your teeth or tongue to do the job. Not every woman likes this - ask her consent before you go digging here. So, look out for the cues, and you'll be fine.
7. Inner thighs
The area, close to the vagina, is super sensitive to touch for many women. And trust me, it is teasing on a major level. Use your fingers to trace her inner thigh, and she'll be left wanting for more. From here, you can slowly work your way up to number 8, the undisputed number one for female pleasure!
The clitoris: This little "joy button" can lead to near instant arousal. In order to find the clitoris, you'll want to move towards the top of the labia (the outer and inner skin folds). The glans of the clitoris — similar to the head of the penis, and even more sensitive — is located between the inner folds of the vulva (labia minora), at the top. The clitoris is just the tip of a branching interior system of erectile tissue that runs down towards the vaginal opening. Careful stroking, licking, gentle rubbing or stimulation with a vibrator on or around the clitoris will lead to fireworks. Use a lube to avoid unpleasant friction!
There are some major and minor erogenous zones in the female body and every woman has her secret pleasure spots. So we say, get to work and find out what your woman likes! Be brave and just ask her or go by trial and error and use the technique suggested by Monica Geller in a famous scene from the hit TV show FRIENDS. While coaching Chandler on how to get-off his girlfriend, she (vividly) suggests playing with multiple of these zones to get her to the top. Thanks Monica, you're so right!
This article was written by Asmita Sarkar.