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We all know that the moment we hear "Anal Sex," there are loud gasps, playful giggles and shocked expressions worthy of daily soap operas. It's time to break the taboo and set those satin sheets afire.
Anal sex can go wrong. But, if you don't do it right, you are bound to do it wrong. Simple! You must have seen the thrusting and rough ways of anal sex in porn, but that's not exactly how we have to enjoy it.
Trust me! I have enjoyed it on many occasions. I never knew I could orgasm till I tried anal sex.
So, let's talk about the must-do and complete no-no of anal sex.
Let’s talk! – Communicate to your partner and ask whether they would be open to anal sex. Trust is essential in any relationship. It’s teamwork when it comes to anal sex and not a one-man show
Clean-Clean – It’s always best to take a shower and clean yourself. You can invite your partner to do hanky panky in the shower before you get down to business. Give yourself an enema by using water and other devices. Douching is very important before anal sex.
Use lots of Lube – The anal canal doesn’t naturally produce lubrication to ease penetration. Hence, it’s best to use a lot of lube before anal penetration.
Breathe and relax – It’s good to breathe while the penetration is happening. You don’t want to feel pain when you are getting penetrated, so relaxation is the technique to make receiving easier. Everything is going to be fine. You might feel like you want to go to the bathroom but just go with the flow.
Safe sex is the key to better anal – Riding bareback works in porn and movies. But we need to be concerned about our health. There are high chances of getting cuts because the skin is thin. So, protection is the best - always.
Don’t thrust; you aren’t a porn star – You are doing this for pleasure. You need to ease your way in and not hurt your partner. Don’t enact what you see in porn; instead, be gentle and go slow.
Never skip foreplay – Foreplay is the best part of having sex. If you ignore that and go straight to anal, you are self-centred! Make your partner feel good, and let the magic of foreplay do the talking. You will see the difference when you get to the sex bit. Both the partners will enjoy.
Poppers – I have nothing against using poppers. But, it is just a drug inhaled before anal sex, and supposedly, it reduces penetration pain. Bullshit! I have tried it and got bored with it. Well, that’s because I have tried anal without it, and it’s amazing.
Well, these are the necessary things that you have to do when you do the backdoor and keep in mind the Don’ts. The key to sex is pleasure for both partners. So let’s keep that in mind. Enjoy while it lasts.