One of the most important parts of going down on a woman is knowing when to stop. Don't just slobber between her legs and drench it in your saliva. Find the right amount of wet. Here's a set of tips to keep in mind.
Check in on her each time you make a move, don't just blindly keep licking and wetting her down there just because you enjoy it. Ask, or at a minimum, pay attention to her body language, breathing, moaning, and so on.
Having a conversation with her before and after the first few times you go down on her is a good idea. Discuss and know what she likes and what she does not. Follow her directions.Combine your oral sex moves with a sex toy such as a vibrator. Check with your partner if she’d want to use a sex toy at all. Only when you know that sex toys have the green light, consult online and offline resources before purchasing.
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Just as you would want to breathe, think of the vagina also requiring breathing space, so give it a rest time, and again, don’t replenish your thirst in one go.
Use your teeth gently and your tongue in moderation. Make more use of the lips. Establish a pressure communication language where she can signal you using your hair and fingers. Use your finger(s) to stimulate her G-spot.
Here are some other excellent articles from our blog on oral sex:
1. What do women really think about oral sex
2. Oral sex: Do men or women enjoy it more?
3. Top 8 products to spice up oral play
4. Oral sex tips to make her go wild