Faking orgasms are the white lies of sex. I don’t understand why this is still a thing though. If you are single and ready to mingle, isn’t a brilliant orgasm (or two or three *wink*) the entire point of the mingling?
The entire concept of faking stems from your insecurities; What if he doesn’t call me back? What if he thinks this is a lot of hard work? What if I’m the problem? Really? If one finger of yours can bring you to a quivering climax, I hardly think a fully functioning human being won’t be enough. It’s all about setting ground rules and breaking a few as per MUTUAL understanding.
In a scenario where you are single, we all know the dreaded commandment ‘Don’t worry, there are many more fish in the sea’. Seriously, do you want the title of my life to read – Finding Nemo? I’m guessing NOT. So I get it, finding your Nemo and keeping him is a difficult and far-fetched pixar fantasy. But when you do find him, wouldn’t you rather be honest and open about what you want, rather than keeping it to yourself? As much as the same may hurt your man’s ego, that is a risk you should be willing to take, and the effort he should be willing to make. Of course, most fake orgasms are a result of just getting done with it. Since women understand how easy it is to hurt a male ego, they let you down easy by just faking it. If you see it that way, it’s actually kind of sweet and understandable. Rather than them telling you how far along their Gspot actually is, they make your journey quick and easy. As much as it seems to be a good idea in the short run, please stop reaffirming the fact that your partner is actually doing something right (when they clearly aren’t) as in the long run, it’s a vicious chain of women who would have to deal with it. So all your single ladies, just keep swimming (and stop faking)!
Being in a relationship and having to lie about an orgasm is literally THE WORST. Even pitiful after a point. Is there ever a right time to bring this up? Or are you stuck in the vicious loophole all your life? I think the best way you can deal with this is to act on it NOW. Discuss how you want to try new things, spice it up, bring in change to the old ways of doing things. That would probably be the best way to go about it.
To conclude, the best way to deal with faking an orgasm is to not. #StopFakingIt #Really #StopIt
Written by Moumita